Sure! But as diverse as religions are, the congregations/ synagogues/mosques/communities are all entirely different. You have more in common with some of those communities than you might think, and they won't give you too much shit about being an atheist (they'll make jokes, but the ones you'd even consider joining… » 7/29/14 2:39am Today 2:39am

been there. People who had previously been my feminist heroes are in my shit chest for similar. Psych ward for a night because my drunk-ass roommates tried to wake me up when I was sleeping. It hurt my case that there were three beer bottles by my bed, but that's what happens when you don't clean for a week. Then they… » 7/29/14 1:40am Today 1:40am

i actually just decided to google 'ASSIMILATION V APPROPRIATION' because someone saw a photo of my dad, born and raised in Japan, returned to Japan, drunkenly wearing a yukata while sitting at an unheated kotatsu while LIVING in Japan, and still called it cultural appropriation. It's kind of an insult to actual… » 7/28/14 3:27am Yesterday 3:27am

I feel you. Whenever my sister is drunk and I'm in polite society with her, her favorite thing to do is tell people I murdered my childhood guinea pig because I wanted to take its temperature when it was ALREADY DYING. She stopped doing it when I started telling people she intentionally killed her mouse by locking it… » 7/26/14 4:58pm Saturday 4:58pm

I'm so sorry, friend. I know how painful that is. Every time you feel like crying, try to remember your dog's dumbass moments that make you laugh. My doggie that died earlier this year made a LOT (like seriously, too many, but she was half lab so duh) of those memories. Remember the times your friend made you laugh so… » 7/26/14 3:51pm Saturday 3:51pm

Put sugar and cream in your coffee for desserts! Or eat dark chocolate with your black coffee! Or do a latte with vanilla soy milk! Depends! (I like coffee ALL ways. I've got a friend that's a bit like you, though. Won't eat sour food with beer, just Smirnoff Ice or vodka drinks. Won't eat sweets if her coffee isn't… » 7/26/14 2:57pm Saturday 2:57pm